I work with guys on lots of issues and disorders, such as depression, bipolar disorder, OCD, ADD, substance abuse recovery, dating skills, career planning, and couples in conflict. I’ve been a specialist in therapy and coaching for gay men for over 27 years, as individuals and couples. In this part, we look at gay men who have a fear of topping instead. In part one of this two-part article on gay men’s fears in sex, I discussed the fear of bottoming. The eggplant emoticon is often used online, such as in Instagram or gay apps like Grindr and Scruff, to connote a penis.
